For immediate crisis assistance – please call Lifeline 13 1114

Covid-19 – Safeguarding the health and well-being of our Members and Staff is TOMNET’s highest priority.

COVID Response (Current June 2020)

Safeguarding the health and well-being of our Members and Staff is TOMNET’s highest priority.

For this reason, all weekly activities, TOMNET Events, and Volunteering activities (except for Telephone Support) have now ceased until further notice. This includes cards, Farmer’s Group, TOMNET on Wednesday, Chew the Fat, Lunch with Mates, aged care visiting teams, barbecue teams, mentoring, and home visiting.

Our Centre now has limited access, please call the TOMNET Team 07 4638 9080 for assistance.

We encourage all our Members to keep in touch, with us and their fellow members. During this worrying time, our network will be our strength, and it’s now time to truly be older men supporting older men.

Federal Government Corona Virus Information

Corona Virus – Good Hygiene Starts Here

Corona Virus – Recent Traveller

Corona Virus – Stay Informed

Corona Virus – Help Stop the Spread

Darling Downs Services Information

Services Information – Contacts updated March 2020

Corona Virus Information for Seniors

TOMNET Coronavirus Survival Guide for Over 50s, Retirees & Seniors

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What is TOMNET, and what do we do?

TOMNET provides older men with opportunities for mateship, the chance to re-connect with the community, and cope positively with life after loss. TOMNET is a non-religious and non-party political organisation, and all men are considered equal.

Our aim is to reach out to older men who are lonely, isolated, and in need of friendship. Men over 50 years of age are welcome to get involved with TOMNET. There are many opportunities outlined on this page for building friendships and getting involved. Contact us for more information.

Older Men – The Forgotten Generation

Radio COTA Podcast # 98 looks into the forgotten generation that is older men. We speak with Louise Adcock, the Manager of The Older Mens Network, (known as TOMNET), which creates networks of older men (50+) who genuinely care about the welfare of each other and find a sense of belonging.


Radio COTA podcast

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Opening Hours

Monday to Thursday | 8.30 a.m. to 4.00 p.m.
Closed public holidays

Contact Details

Phone:  07 4638 9080
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How to find us?

223 Hume St, Toowoomba Qld 4350

Contact Form

Please use the contact form below to send your enquiry.
We will contact you as soon as possible, alternatively, please call the TOMNET Centre on 07 4638 9080.

What's on at TOMNET?

All activities are currently on hold until further notice
(June 2020)

Retirement and Engaging Older Men in the Community Brochures

Ever wondered why it is difficult to engage older men in services? Use the strategies listed in this resource when designing your service delivery models.

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Many men are emotionally unprepared for the loss of their stable work routine and the sense of purpose it carried. Learn how to plan for a successful retirement.

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Ever wondered how tough it can be for an older man? Find out what questions you should ask yourself. Learn how to help…yourself, and others.

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Doing It Tough Brochure

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Peer Support Groups Brochure

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Many Things Worry Brochure

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Barbecue Service Brochure

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TOMNET Newsletter

Keep up with what’s happening in your organisation. Featuring stories from bus trips, Volunteering, barbecues, helpful articles on mens issues, a few jokes here and there, plus events and special interest group updates. Please contact us for previous versions of the Newsletter.

If you would like to receive the TOMNET Newsletter via email, please use the Contact Form to send us your email address and you will be added to our mailing list.

Older Men Hidden Hardships Documentary

The TOMNET DVD features the lives of six older blokes sharing their stories of hardship and personal struggles in an effort to highlight older mens issues.

“its not always easy, indeed its mostly very hard for older blokes to tell you how they really feel. Here are the stories of six of our older men, who courageously let us into their lives, their struggles, their innermost feelings and how they found light at the end of their personal tunnel.” Narrator – Royce Perkins

TOMNET DVD Fundraising

Sales of the TOMNET DVD help raise valuable funds for Members while spreading the message of older mens issues within the wider community.

The full 28 min DVD features the lives of six older blokes sharing their stories of hardship and personal struggles in an effort to highlight older men issues. To order your copy of the DVD, please contact the TOMNET Centre on (07) 4638 9080. $10 non – Members, $5 TOMNET Members

Interest Groups and Regular Activities

TOMNET Members are involved in a range of activities which promote mateship, wellbeing and support. Our Members invite you to come along and meet a few of us, we all have something in common.

Retired Farmers Mens Meeting

At the TOMNET centre (223 Hume St) on Tuesdays, retired farmers get together and have morning tea with each other. Many farmers retire to Toowoomba and lose their connections with the bush, and each other. We are trying to reconnect these men to help them regain their sense of purpose in retirement. Come in and have a coffee, meet a new mate, or connect with an old one.

From 10 a.m. until noon. every Tuesday except for Public Holidays.

Wednesday Mens Meeting

TOMNET on Wednesday:

1.00 p.m. until 3.00 p.m. every Wednesday at Gold Park, located at 341 Hume St, Toowoomba

(entrance next to South Toowoomba Bowls Club)

Gold Park Location

Member driven – every week is different.

Guest Speakers, Life Stories, Trivia Days, Singing, Barbecues and much more.

Come in and meet some of the guys.

Thursday Mens Meeting

At the TOMNET centre (223 Hume St) on Thursdays, 20-30 blokes get together and shoot the breeze. Come in and have a coffee, meet a new mate or organise a get together.

From 9 a.m. until 11.30 a.m. every Thursday except for Public Holidays.

Weekly Interest Groups
TOMNET has a wide range of interest groups the men are currently involved with.


These include:

  • Cards – Mondays and Wednesdays (8.30 a.m. til 11.30 a.m.)
  • Chess – Wednesdays (8.30 a.m. til 11.30 a.m.)
  • TOMNET Minstrals (singing group that visits Aged Care homes)

Details can be found in our Newsletter or calling the TOMNET Centre.


Aged Care Visiting Teams

TOMNET Volunteers visit several Aged Care facilities located around Toowoomba to talk to other older men who may be isolated because of health, transport, or any other reason.

Currently we visit Lourdes Aged Care, Yukana Retirement Village, BUPA Rangeville Aged Care, Nubeena Rest Home, Westhaven Retirement Village, Brodribb Home, Salem Lutheran Nursing Home and Symes Thorpe.

TOMNET's message throughout the community...

TOMNET's 12 affiliated Groups in QLD

The map below shows the groups actively supporting older men within their communities. Contact details are listed below, or call the TOMNET Centre (Toowoomba) on 07 4638 9080.

Setup your own TOMNET group...

Help spread the TOMNET message. We can help you setup your own older mens network. Call the TOMNET Centre for our step-by-step guide - we will help.

Toowoomba Network

Address: 223 Hume St, Toowoomba, 4350
Phone: 07 - 4638 9080


Oakey Mens Group


President - Bruce Hoppe Phone: 0432 759 947
Secretary - Gerry Samuelson Phone: 4691 1812


Phone: Bernie Shelton (0427 236 597)

Inglewood Mens Group

"The Mates Shed" c/- Andrew Granzotto
55 Chilcott St, Inglewood, QLD 4387
PO Box 77, Inglewood, QLD 4387

Crows Nest Mens Group

Address: Crows Nest Bowls Club
Phone: Paul Fleming (4698 1056)

MOMnet - Millmerran


MOMnet - Millmerran
Address: Millmerran Community Support Centre,
50 Commens St, Millmerran
Phone: 07 - 4695 1829

Highfields Mens Shed

Address: Cabarlah, Qld
Contact: Richard Creagh
Phone: 0412 687 338
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Tara Mens Group

Graham Muller -
Meetings: 3rd Thursday of each month at CWA rooms Tara

Toowoomba Mens Shed

100 Glenvale Rd & 127A James St Toowoomba Qld 4350

Dalby Mens Group

Contact: Leisa Finch (Facility and Program Coordinator)
Phone: (07) 4662 0152

TOMNET inc Management Committee

Executive Members

President - Stan Carroll
Vice President - Alan Yorkston
Treasurer - Allan Jones
Secretary - Greg Sellars

Ordinary Members

John Miners
Jim Aulbury
Greg Jones
Rob Burey
Darryl Brunton

Preventing Suicide in Older Men since 2001

Our expertise is Older Men. The Older Men's Network was originally formed by eight older men who identified high levels of suicide in their peers within the Toowoomba community. They set to reduce this. The group was driven by older men, for older men - this fundamental principle is the reason for TOMNET's continued success today.

The Management Committee meet every 3rd Monday of the month at 9.30 a.m., except December.

TOMNET Supporters:

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