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What is TOMNET?
TOMNET provides older men with opportunities for mateship, the chance to re-connect with the community and cope positively with life after loss. TOMNET is a non-religious and non-party political organisation, and all men are considered equal.
Our aim is to reach out to older men who are lonely, isolated and in need of friendship. Men over 50 years of age are welcome to get involved with TOMNET. There are many opportunities outlined on this page for building friendships and getting involved. Contact us for more information.
Current Brochures on Retirement and Engaging Older Men in the Community
Ever wondered why it is difficult to engage older men in services? Use the strategies listed in this resource when designing your service delivery models.
Many men are emotionally unprepared for the loss of their stable work routine and the sense of purpose it carried. Learn how to plan for a successful retirement.
Brochures available for download – Service Provider package
BROCHURES - E BOOK FORMAT
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Brochures - eBook Format
Monday to Thursday | 9.00 a.m. to 4.00 p.m.
Friday | 9.00 a.m. to 2 p.m.
Closed public holidays
Please use the contact form below to send your enquiry.
We will contact you as soon as possible, alternatively, please call the TOMNET Centre on 07 4638 9080.
How to find us?
223 Hume St, Toowoomba, Queensland
Phone: 07 4638 9080
Keep up with what’s happening in your organisation. Featuring stories from bus trips, Volunteering, barbecues, helpful articles on mens issues, a few jokes here and there, plus events and special interest group updates. Please contact us for previous versions of the Newsletter.
If you would like to receive the TOMNET Newsletter via email, please use the Contact Form to send us your email address and you will be added to our mailing list.
Older Men Hidden Hardships Documentary
The TOMNET DVD features the lives of six older blokes sharing their stories of hardship and personal struggles in an effort to highlight older mens issues.
“its not always easy, indeed its mostly very hard for older blokes to tell you how they really feel. Here are the stories of six of our older men, who courageously let us into their lives, their struggles, their innermost feelings and how they found light at the end of their personal tunnel.” Narrator – Royce Perkins
TOMNET DVD Fundraising
Sales of the TOMNET DVD help raise valuable funds for Members while spreading the message of older mens issues within the wider community.
The full 28 min DVD features the lives of six older blokes sharing their stories of hardship and personal struggles in an effort to highlight older men issues. To order your copy of the DVD, please contact the TOMNET Centre on (07) 4638 9080. $10 non – Members, $5 TOMNET Members
Interest Groups and Regular Activities
TOMNET Members are involved in a range of activities which promote mateship, wellbeing and support. Our Members invite you to come along and meet a few of us, we all have something in common.
Wednesday Mens Meeting
1.00 p.m. until 3.00 p.m. every Wednesday at Gold Park, located at 341 Hume St, Toowoomba
(entrance next to South Toowoomba Bowls Club)
Member driven – every week is different.
Guest Speakers, Life Stories, Trivia Days, Singing, Barbecues and much more.
Come in and meet some of the guys.
Thursday Mens Meeting
At the TOMNET centre (223 Hume St) on Thursdays, 20-30 blokes get together and shoot the breeze. Come in and have a coffee, meet a new mate or organise a get together.
From 9 a.m. until 11.30 a.m. every Thursday except for Public Holidays.
Monthly Interest Groups
- Photography – meet 2nd Friday of each month.
- Cards – Mondays and Wednesdays (9 a.m. til 11.30 a.m.)
- Chess – Wednesdays from 9 a.m.
- Singing – every second Tuesday afternoon.
- Art Group – soon to be announced – March 2017
Details can be found in our Newsletter or calling the TOMNET Centre.
Monthly Men at Work meetings
For more information please contact the TOMNET Centre on 4638 9080.
The meeting is strictly confidential and facilitated by a qualified counselor.
Aged Care Visiting Teams
Currently we visit Lourdes Aged Care, Yukana Retirement Village, BUPA Rangeville Aged Care, Nubeena Rest Home, Westhaven Retirement Village, Brodribb Home, Salem Lutheran Nursing Home and Symes Thorpe.
TOMNET’s message throughout the community…
TOMNET’s 12 affiliated Groups in QLD
The map below shows the groups actively supporting older men within their communities. Click on a pin to view contact details or call the TOMNET Centre (Toowoomba) on 07 4638 9080.
Setup your own TOMNET group…
Help spread the TOMNET message. We can help you setup your own older mens network. Call the TOMNET Centre for our step-by-step guide – we will help.
The Older Mens Network (Toowoomba)
Address: 223 Hume St, Toowoomba, 4350 Phone: 07 – 4638 9080 Email: firstname.lastname@example.org
Contact: George Lipman Phone: 4691 1173 / 0407 026 191 TOMNET Oakey
Roma Mens Network - ROMnet
Phone: Bernie Shelton (0427 236 597) Email: email@example.com
Inglewood Men's Shed
Crows Nest Mens Group
Address: Crows Nest Bowls Club Phone: Paul Fleming (4698 1056) Email: firstname.lastname@example.org
MOMNET - Millmerran Mens Network
Address: Millmerran Community Support Centre, 50 Commens St, Millmerran Phone: 07 – 4695 1829
Highfields Mens Shed
Address: Cabarlah, Qld Contact: Richard Creagh Phone: 0412 687 338 Check us on Facebook
Tara Mens Group
Contact: Graeme Hopkins – 0409 763 754 Second Contact: Ken Williams – 4668 2127 Third Contact: Graham Muller – email@example.com
Toowoomba City Mens Shed Inc
Dalby Mens Group
Contact: Leisa Finch (Facility and Program Coordinator) Phone: (07) 4662 0152 Email: firstname.lastname@example.org
TOMNET - Mt Gravatt
Address: Tryon St, Greenleaves Retirement Village, Mt Gravatt, Brisbane Contact: Geoff Wilson Mobile Phone: 0412622779 Email: email@example.com (Toowoomba email)
TOMNET inc Management Committee 2017
President - Stan Carroll
Vice President - Alan Yorkston
Treasurer - Terry Pailthorpe
Secretary - John Erbs
Preventing Suicide in Older Men since 2001
Our expertise is Older Men. The Older Men's Network was originally formed by eight older men who identified high levels of suicide in their peers within the Toowoomba community. They set to reduce this. The group was driven by older men, for older men - this fundamental principle is the reason for TOMNET's continued success today.
The Management Committee meet every 3rd Monday of the month at 9.30 a.m., except December.