For immediate crisis assistance – please call Lifeline 13 11 14

Covid-19 – Safeguarding the health and well-being of our Members and Staff is TOMNET’s highest priority.

TOMNET recommences meetings

TOMNET commences face-to-face meetings from 6th July. Due to QLD Health Directives and Members vulnerability, there is a need for an approved TOMNET COVID-19 Safe plan. TOMNET resumes in a changed format to meet the plan. (This plan will be in place for the next three months).

The Management Committee also respects that some Members may not feel comfortable to attend group gatherings just yet and that is ok. Ensuring your health and wellbeing is of paramount importance to TOMNET, thus we thank Members for their understanding.

2021 Groups Format

All Meetings at the TOMNET Centre
223 Hume Street, Toowoomba

4 (four) Meeting Times | max. 15 (fifteen) Members per meeting
9.30 a.m. to 11.30 a.m. and 1.00 p.m. to 3.00 p.m.
Group Meetings:
Monday, Tuesday (2), and Thursday
Members are randomly added to group times.
Call the TOMNET Centre if wishing to attend and a spot is available.
07 4638 9080

The Older Mens Network was proud to support the Australian Men’s Health Forum recently held online in 2020 via Zoom. TOMNET was voted in the Top 3 Mens Health organisations nationally by a panel of industry judges. The forum was a opportunity to showcase the numerous programs across Australia supporting mens and boys health. 

What is TOMNET, and what do we do?

TOMNET provides older men with opportunities for mateship, the chance to re-connect with the community, and cope positively with life after loss. TOMNET is a non-religious and non-party political organisation, and all men are considered equal.

Our aim is to reach out to older men who are lonely, isolated, and in need of friendship. Men over 50 years of age are welcome to get involved with TOMNET. There are many opportunities outlined on this page for building friendships and getting involved. Contact us for more information.

Older Men – The Forgotten Generation

Radio COTA Podcast # 98 looks into the forgotten generation that is older men. We speak with Louise Adcock, the Manager of The Older Mens Network, (known as TOMNET), which creates networks of older men (50+) who genuinely care about the welfare of each other and find a sense of belonging.

Radio COTA podcast

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TOMNET Newsletter

Keep up with what’s happening in your organisation. Featuring stories from bus trips, Volunteering, barbecues, helpful articles on mens issues, a few jokes here and there, plus events and special interest group updates. Please contact us for previous versions of the Newsletter.

If you would like to receive the TOMNET Newsletter via email, please use the Contact Form to send us your email address and you will be added to our mailing list.

Opening Hours

Monday to Thursday | 8.30 a.m. to 4.00 p.m.
Closed public holidays

Contact Details

Phone:  07 4638 9080
What’s On Event Calendar


How to find us?

223 Hume St, Toowoomba Qld 4350

Contact Form

Please use the contact form below to send your enquiry.
We will contact you as soon as possible, alternatively, please call the TOMNET Centre on 07 4638 9080.

    What’s on at TOMNET?

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    Retirement and Engaging Older Men in the Community Brochures

    Ever wondered why it is difficult to engage older men in services? Use the strategies listed in this resource when designing your service delivery models.

    Read the Brochure

    Many men are emotionally unprepared for the loss of their stable work routine and the sense of purpose it carried. Learn how to plan for a successful retirement.

    Read the Brochure

    Ever wondered how tough it can be for an older man? Find out what questions you should ask yourself. Learn how to help…yourself, and others.

    Read the Brochure

    Doing It Tough Brochure

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    Peer Support Groups Brochure

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    Many Things Worry Brochure

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    Barbecue Service Brochure

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    Digital TV Graphics Pack Download

    (Zip File 3.2 mb Immediate Download)

    Older Men Hidden Hardships Documentary

    The TOMNET DVD features the lives of six older blokes sharing their stories of hardship and personal struggles in an effort to highlight older mens issues.

    “its not always easy, indeed its mostly very hard for older blokes to tell you how they really feel. Here are the stories of six of our older men, who courageously let us into their lives, their struggles, their innermost feelings and how they found light at the end of their personal tunnel.” Narrator – Royce Perkins

    TOMNET DVD Fundraising

    Sales of the TOMNET DVD help raise valuable funds for Members while spreading the message of older mens issues within the wider community.

    The full 28 min DVD features the lives of six older blokes sharing their stories of hardship and personal struggles in an effort to highlight older men issues. To order your copy of the DVD, please contact the TOMNET Centre on (07) 4638 9080. $10 non – Members, $5 TOMNET Members

    (Pre-COVID – 19) Interest Groups and Regular Activities

    TOMNET Members are involved in a range of activities which promote mateship, wellbeing and support. Our Members invite you to come along and meet a few of us, we all have something in common.

    TOMNET's message throughout the community...

    TOMNET affiliated Groups in QLD

    The map below shows the groups actively supporting older men within their communities. Contact details are listed below, or call the TOMNET Centre (Toowoomba) on 07 4638 9080.

    Setup your own TOMNET group...

    Help spread the TOMNET message. We can help you setup your own older mens network. Call the TOMNET Centre for our step-by-step guide - we will help.

    Toowoomba Network

    Address: 223 Hume St, Toowoomba, 4350
    Phone: 07 - 4638 9080


    Oakey Mens Group


    President - Bruce Hoppe Phone: 0432 759 947
    Secretary - Gerry Samuelson Phone: 4691 1812
    Oakey TOMNET

    ROMnet (ROMA)

    Phone: Bernie Shelton (0427 236 597)

    Inglewood Mens Group

    "The Mates Shed" c/- Andrew Granzotto
    55 Chilcott St, Inglewood, QLD 4387
    PO Box 77, Inglewood, QLD 4387

    Crows Nest Mens Group

    Address: Crows Nest Bowls Club
    Phone: Paul Fleming (4698 1056)

    MOMnet - Millmerran

    Address: Millmerran Community Support Centre,
    50 Commens St, Millmerran
    Phone: 07 - 4695 1829

    Highfields Mens Shed

    Address: Cabarlah, Qld
    Contact: Richard Creagh
    Phone: 0412 687 338
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    Tara Mens Group

    Graham Muller -
    Meetings: 3rd Thursday of each month at CWA rooms Tara

    Toowoomba Mens Shed

    100 Glenvale Rd & 127A James St Toowoomba Qld 4350

    Dalby Mens Group

    Contact: Leisa Finch (Facility and Program Coordinator)
    Phone: (07) 4662 0152

    Withcott Mens Shed

    Steve Jones Community Centre
    Meadows Road Withcott

    TOMNET inc Management Committee

    Executive Members

    President - Stan Carroll
    Vice President - Alan Yorkston
    Treasurer - Allan Jones
    Secretary - Greg Sellars

    Ordinary Members

    John Miners
    Jim Aulbury
    Greg Jones
    Rob Burey
    Bernie Moran
    Ross Lange

    Preventing Suicide in Older Men since 2001

    Our expertise is Older Men. The Older Men's Network was originally formed by eight older men who identified high levels of suicide in their peers within the Toowoomba community. They set to reduce this. The group was driven by older men, for older men - this fundamental principle is the reason for TOMNET's continued success today.

    The Management Committee meet every 3rd Monday of the month at 9.30 a.m., except December.

    The Older Mens Network is a Member of the Australian Men's Health Forum. The Australian Men’s Health Forum is the peak body for men’s health in Australia.

    AMHF is at the centre of a diverse network of individuals and organisations working together to tackle the social factors that shape men and boys’ health. 

    We want to create a healthier future for men and boys’ by tackling the male health crisis and getting the world working for men and boys.

    TOMNET Supporters:

    The Events Calendar
    Australian Charities and Not-for-Profits Commssion